Thursday, 23 May 2013

Kith and Kin: Media Reviews II


DECCAN CHRONICLE





                                                           

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Ties that bind & gag
  By Vani Mahesh










The title Kith and Kin, Chronicles of a Clan tells you at the very onset that the stories here are snugly interlinked to one another and you will see characters carry over from one story to another. This is quite comforting. 

If you, as a reader, are not yet ready to part with a character, no need to despair — there is a good chance he or she will make an appearance again in someone’s thought, or as someone’s someone.

Through the 230-odd pages of the book, you will live with the eccentricities and quirks of a prestigious matriarchal family, the Melekats from Kerala. At the head of the family is Ammini Amma, and the stories cover characters up to the present day — till Ammini’s grandchildren. The author does not take the rather boring and tiresome route of narrating the stories in a genealogical order, but weaves them in seemingly no particular sequence. However, given the easy flow of the stories, one can imagine the shuffling she must have done in lining them up.

The collection grabs your attention from the very first story, which briefly introduces you to the matriarch and to the clan, but mostly to Mon Repos, the matriarchal home. Young and thriving architect Sumanth gets a call from his childhood friend Suvarna out of the blue. Suvarna, Ammini’s granddaughter, has now inherited Mon Repos, and she calls Sumanth to know if he wants to buy the place from her.
 

Through Sumanth, who lived in a rented house next to Mon Repos as a child, the author paints a picture of the grandiose mansion and its uppity dwellers. The stories that follow are almost like a soap opera plot!
 

There is Raman, Ammini’s widowed brother, who laments having to live with his son’s family as an old man. Then there is Rajan, Ammini’s unmarried brother, who lives on his own, but goes through an intense loneliness that slowly pushes him towards insanity. You will dread old age after gulping these two stories down.

While elders in the clan get you down a little, with their sufferings and insecurities, the younger generation garners your admiration for their resilience. Take Beena, Ammini’s granddaughter. After being forcefully indoctrinated into the “boy seeing” ritual, this is the sentence that sums her thought — “Would they force her to marry that insufferable man? Well, if they did, she would embark on an affair with the brother!” 

Or Avinash, the matriarch’s grandson. He is subjected to a silent trauma all through his growing years having to bear with his embittered and embattled parents. The troubled youngster finally decides to move far away from them to Baltimore — “He knew his father would be pragmatic about the move, his mother would be devastated, but it had to be done. Let them sort their lives out, I really cannot be the sole crutch any longer.”

In this compulsively readable collection of short stories, the author’s handling of the main character, Ammini, is subtle but strong. Ammini appears in every story, as someone’s mother, grandmother or sister, but not with a story of her own. So, all along as a reader, you make up your mind about what kind of a person she is.
 

Just when you think she is a cold-blooded mother, who never cared for her daughter, a grandchild shows you how erudite Ammini really was. While one brother loathes her dominance and control, another loves her for being calm and dignified. So, who is this mystery woman? What happens to her at the end? And how do these stories end? You read on, because I don’t want the review to be flagged for spoilers!




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Patchwork mosaic  

September 2, 2012

SUNEETHA BALAKRISHNAN


Sit back and figure out the role of the protagonists as they come on stage and narrate their stories. 






The first thing that strikes the reader about Sheila Kumar’s Kith and Kin: Chronicles of a Clan is the multitude of characters in the 237 pages of the novel. The author actually has a page devoted to a rather intimidating list of the 35 habiting her story, and briefly sketches their relationships to each other. And this, across generations and geographies.

The list is a well-intentioned guide since the book is a loose weave of stories around the Melekat family, a Malabar landed gentry. Their residence is named rather unusually, Mon Repos, and is typical of the landlord folk of Malabar, complete with sprawling grounds, cowsheds and ponds and mango trees. It’s occupied by its matriarch Ammini Amma and her descendants.

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Not all of the tribe is resident. As the story unfolds, they narrate from their current locations. The reader just needs to sit back and figure out the role of the protagonists as they come on stage and tell their part of the tale. The picture is large, to say the least, and the mosaic is not easily definable. The characters point to a couple of skeletons in the closet as well. The women of this matrilineal clan are infamously given to tantrums and the men are insipid by comparison. The reader also gets to know that the Melekats are also good looking; and they are by nature, well, clannish.

The story opens and closes with Sumant and Suvarna; their camaraderie tips us to the dramatic bend of the author’s pen. But the rest of the story is about lives and routines, and patterns of living, which ranges from traditional to hip and from the rustic to high urban. The writing style is easy and flows well and most of the cast are etched credibly: especially Padmini, the unfortunate one; the spinster lives of Sarasa and Rohini, and the senior Menon men who are neurotically tormented and have geriatric issues. The author is also eminently capable of creating the mood of the moment and sucking the reader right in, as she does with Sudha’s angst.







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All in a family

Sheila Kumar’s book Kith And Kin narrates a story of a once-powerful gentle clan
“Kith And Kin is not formed on any family — no family has that many dysfunctional people” — a really laconic outline of Sheila Kumar’s new book by a author herself.
The cosy Cha Bar during Oxford Book Store was declare to a launch of her anthology of brief stories recently. Noted author and playwright Shreekumar Varma did a honours, while publisher and former vanguard of studies, Asian College of Journalism, Bindu Bhaskar intent a author in a review about a book, a stories, acharacters and, of course, her inspiration.
Departing from a tried-and-tested regulation of protagonists, antagonists, heroes, heroines and villains, Sheila narrates a story of a once-powerful gentle house by a eyes of a several members.
A “non-resident mallu” and an Army mother whose “heart belongs to Chennai”, her impulse for a Melekats came from her believe of a several innate Nair clans of Malabar. Melekat Ammini Amma, a mama and earlier ‘White Rose’ of a town, and a ancestral home of a Melekats, Mon Repos, are literally a twin bulwarks on that any story hinges. Straying spouses, waste uncles, manic-depressive mothers-in-law, drifting immature men, groom-hunting immature women — all make an coming in 19 tranche de strive stories.
“The Melekats were only clamouring to be created about,” smiles a author in between book signings. “With apologies to Tolkein, we wanted a ring to connect them all.”
It took her 7 months to write, longer to find a publisher. “I refused to change a format of a story to a novel instead of brief stories,” she explained.
A touching story
Of all a stories, ‘On The Bench’ seemed to be a transparent favourite, closely followed by ‘Colours’. The former narrates a touching story of an “intensely lonely” aged male while a latter recounts a several attempts of a immature lady embarking on her hunt for a suitable boy. Every story has a opposite lead character, giving a reader a uninformed new viewpoint of a complexities of a dynamics within a family.
It is, however, engaging to note that notwithstanding Melekat Ammini Amma being a self-evident anchor of a story — even creation an coming in a few narratives — there is not a singular story from her perspective.
We get copiousness of discernment into her impression yet — a legendary beauty, a dauntless matriarch, an means manager of finances, egos and lives, and, as her hermit rather uncharitably puts it, an ice queen.
The characters pronounce English, with a smattering of Malayalam difference thrown in. A glossary during a finish of any story takes caring of a translation, while one during a commencement of a book describes any impression that meanders by “in approach propinquity to Ammini Amma”.
Penning a chronicles of a house travelling 4 generations is not easy, though Sheila accomplishes a charge with aplomb.
From reminiscing about a good aged days to confronting a quandary of offered off their birthright square by piece, a family goes by it all.
Spoiler warning —while a really same characters who deliver us to a Melekats move us to a final chapter, a turn during a finish creates for a extraordinary climax. “The family had been decaying for too long, it was time for them to review a essay on a wall, time to let go,” she explains.
A account of change
Sometimes witty, infrequently poignant, infrequently funny, infrequently officious maudlin, Kith And Kin is not only a story of a family — it is a account of change. Change in tradition, in lives, in culture, in society, in people and in a approach they think, though not in a approach they feel.
(Kith And Kin -Sheila Kumar, (Rupa Publishers, Rs. 250) is on sale at leading bookstores.)



Kith and Kin: Media Reviews I




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Feb 09, 2013 Nitya Sivasubramanian rated it 5 of 5 stars on Good Reads
Much like sitting down for a chat with an old friend, this wonderfully gossipy little book wanders from one member to another of a large old family, detailing the strange tales that make a family real. From woman in a pool to a man at a reunion dinner, no story is over told, over detailed, overly fleshed out. Instead, the reader is simply offered a little glimpse of a moment, a turning point, or a single realization, that allows the reader some, but not full, understanding, much as a person can...more Much like sitting down for a chat with an old friend, this wonderfully gossipy little book wanders from one member to another of a large old family, detailing the strange tales that make a family real. From woman in a pool to a man at a reunion dinner, no story is over told, over detailed, overly fleshed out. Instead, the reader is simply offered a little glimpse of a moment, a turning point, or a single realization, that allows the reader some, but not full, understanding, much as a person can never fully understand another. A wonderfully easy read, I was only disappointed when I realized I had come to the end and had no more to learn about the vaunted Melekat family.



                                                           

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Chinwag with Sheila Kumar
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The twist is that all the characters are connected to each other by way of blood ties (they are part of the widespread Melekat clan) or ties of deep friendship. Though all the stories do stand alone, they are also connected since the Melekats wander in and out of each other’s stories, doing their own thing!

Why should people read  Kith and Kin?  
I hope the book is intelligent entertainment for readers. What happens to the Melekats happens to people everywhere. Life throws all sorts of things at us; the real story lies in how we deal with the onslaught. The stories are a funny, wry, sad, bold and timorous take on life.   

How different is your book from other books that tell similar Mallu tales?
Funnier, more contemporary, even though it’s firmly rooted in its culture. Actually, these Mallu tales and this Melekat clan will find resonance with non-Mallus everywhere   

How long did it take to write this book?
The nineteen stories were down in its eponymous folder on my desktop within seven months. It was not an entirely disciplined writing process, but I will confess: I’d sit and write the stories at one go, amidst my regular routine of travelling, travel writing, editing, reading, checking out the new eateries in town, and all that jazz. It was fun writing it.  

The cover photograph of your book has garnered much attention….  
  While I was casting my net far and wide, along comes a set of photographs on Facebook, by a friend, P N Shanavas; he’d shot those pics in the Malabar region. I took one look at what eventually became the cover photograph of   Kith and Kin  , and I was transfixed. There was an amooma (grandma), carrying Kerala fruit and veggies, there was the laterite brick wall of a temple in the background…perfect! Shanavas was kind enough to let me have the pictures for the front and back covers; and so I lucked out again!   

Are there more books in the making?
The Melekats clamoured to be written about. Right now, there is a peaceful silence inside my head, thanks be!   




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KITH AND KIN
01 Aug 2012

The Matriarch And Her Family
Sheila Kumar weaves an interesting story around the characters of the Melakat clan
Abraham C. Mathews
Kith And Kin: Chronicles Of A Clan By Sheila Kumar Rupa: Pages: 248 Price: Rs 250






When a novel chooses to begin with a page-and-a-half-long list of characters, it should make you wary. When that novel is only about a fifth of the size of War and Peace, you can be quite baffled by the prospect of having to abruptly flip pages back and forth just to keep track of who is exactly who. And when at page 102, when a ninth chapter introduces a ninth set of characters into what you assumed to be a single story, you may be just forgiven for wondering if there wasn't a better way to write a story.

But if you see Kith And Kin as a set of separate short stories (19 in all), it is a delightful peek into the remnants of a fictional clan, the Melekat Tharavadu, characterised by all round snobbishness and ready wit, personified by its now deceased matriarch, Ammini Amma. Once the most prosperous and powerful family in town, the second generation is left picking up the pieces, trying to break away from the shackles of stiff upper lip tradition. A transition that is, however, managed only by the third generation, for whom Melekat is just an identity, perhaps nothing more than an explanation for the few weird traits they all share.

There is Suvarna, Suv, who is bequeathed the ancestral home, Mon Repos. The only problem is she doesn't want it. It is for Sumant that she pines, though she 'chooses not to own him'. There is Seema, having to sit through a school reunion of her husband's, wondering what was behind the smile of Sameer, a man with his own secrets. There's her sister, Sindhu, carrying on a semi-furtive affair with a married man. There's Veena and Vasu, siblings who must pretend to be oblivious to their mother's delusions of grandeur. There's even a journal-keeping ghost of an ex-Melekat, who's not cut out for haunting.

Every story brings out the contrast between perceptions and reality, our thoughts actions inevitably influenced by our perception of situations. If only we knew what the other person was thinking, how much more easier would life have been! On page 225, the reader is introduced to 18th set of characters in the book. One of them, Dakshu doesn't see the point in continuing with her husband. But then it doesn't make sense in leaving him either. Yes, an affair could be the solution to the boredom plaguing her life.

Meanwhile, ogling at Dakshu by the pool is a man, practicing a dignified response to his wife, who he suspects will leave him soon. Back home, Dakshu's husband wonders why on earth he married his wife, dumber than the prototype dumb blonde. But does he have a real reason to divorce right now? Perhaps, an affair. And if he kept matters discreet, his wife wouldn't even cotton on.

It's the myriad of whimsical characters, the pacy, witty writing, and the endings that define most chapters that makes Kith And Kin a treat to read. However, at some point, you do wonder if too many stories have been wedged into a single novel. Way too many characters, all related in some knotted fashion, distinguished by not more than one consonant in their names. There's Seema, Beena, Veena and Leela, none of whom are siblings. But then again, if you were 'mallu', you would understand. Neither would you mind, if you were brought up on those shores, the several references to Baranis and Nayadis, Valichapadus and the local Pooram. In fact, like me, you may be thankful to the author for demonstrating how a 'tharavadu' and the people who live in it can be way more whimsical than anything you have ever experienced. Yes indeed, if she still has another story in her, and that makes its way into a novel, I will be reaching out for that too.





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Kith and Kin
24 August 20012








Weaving a complex web of characters, Sheila Kumar tells the tales of the Melekat family belonging to the Nair community of Kerala. 

Through an impressive family tree, we are introduced to the clan at the head of which is Ammani Amma the matriarch who more or less rules the roost from her family home Mon Repos. Her descendants include her son and two daughters and their respective families and also her brothers and her mother.  

The story unfolds with Sumant receiving a call from his childhood friend Suvarna, grand daughter of Ammini Amma, asking him if he wished to buy Mon Repos. As he considers his options, and prepares to travel to Mon Repos, the entire tapestry of the family history is told in the form of short stories.

The stories connect from one character to another, quickly shifting the reader's empathy from one protagonist to the next thereby giving us a clear and rich perspective of each characters point of view. 

Padmini is mourning her husband's death. He had a vile and vicious tongue and a cruel streak and a part of her is glad to have been relieved from him. She feels free and is eager to begin afresh, a life of less penury and control with her children. She resents her mother Ammmani Amma asserting authority in her own home especially when she tries to send her faithful servant away.

Twenty two year old Beena begins the series of boy meet girl to find the right match. Each meeting is defined by the colour of her clothes. Which colour would prove to be her lucky colour finally?

Veena was unable to come to terms with her mother Leela's imperfections that made her tell tall tales of events that supposedly happened.

Ammani Amma's daughter in law is a ghost. A ghost that wears jeans unlike the ethereal white shroud. And she keeps a journal. A journal of what naughty, scary things she does after becoming a ghost. And before she fades, she must write how she actually died.

Dakshu is desperate to leave her husband, and is looking for a good reason to do so. Meanwhile, her husband also has a few thoughts on his subject matter.

Ammu decides to save the hotel cost and spend the night at the airport. Unexpected to her, she meets many a colourful characters. An experience that anecdotes are made of.

The stories flit from beginning to end like a slice of life and ends in an unexpected manner. They almost do not end and leave behind much to imagination. One is left wondering what happens next and the ending is ripe for a richer tale to be woven.

While the theme is traditional Malabar settings, the characters are modern and contrast with the settings and give an unexpected texture to the entire tapestry.

I loved the contrasting imagery that was formed as each character's 
I've beyond Mon Repos was explored.

Title- Kith and Kin chronicles of a clan
Author- Sheila Kumar
Price- Rs 250
Publisher- Rupa



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SATURDAY, OCTOBER 27, 2012
Family Matters - "Kith and Kin – Chronicles of a Clan" – A book review















If a novel is about one’s family, it can be an interesting one to write about. Semi-autobiographical, yes, but painting pictures with words that are almost true to life can be tedious still what with each family member’s character traits, quirks and the likes.  But what if you were writing about a fictional family, across three generations, living far and wide, yet each one somehow remains true to their roots? Tedious, yes, but doesn’t feel so when they get onto reading Sheila Kumar’s Kith and Kin – Chronicles of a Clan!

The book begins with the author introducing the large Melekat family – describing every one of the 19 characters! It is like tracing back a large family tree, more of a navigating tool to help you through the book and avoid confusion.

The elegant white rose of the town, Ammini Amma – standing tall and stoic, never letting anyone know who she really is or what she really feels is the family matriarch of the Melekat clan and runs her huge house ‘Mon Repose’ proudly. However, her children are different. While Ammini Amma remains unreadable, the author continues to spin her web of tales from the lives of her offspring’s.

The descendants of Amma, aka current Nair family, are oscillating between what they feel, what they really want and how their life really is! They struggle to keep up with the charming and elegant life their mother led. Far from perfect, their stories are marred by failed marriages, unhappy relationships, commitment phobias, treachery, loneliness, jealousy and insecurity, even bordering on dementia. On the other hand, the younger generation, i.e. the children of her children, look up to her for solace and peace whenever they find themselves in a soup. Unlike their own parents who fail to get going with the fast-changing times, the younger ones feel that their grandmother would have understood.

Having left their home town of South Malabar, the Melekats have settled across Mumbai, Bangalore and the US. However, what bind them together apart from their similar aquiline features, bouts of tantrums and their arrogant nature is their mother and their home, Mon Repos. Amma and their childhood family home are recurring themes through the book.

What really intrigues one is that there is not one chapter from the matriarch’s perspective. Everyone seems to be talking about her, cursing her maybe, but she is not the one to talk! Very deliberate, I’d say as the author stays true to Amma’s character – never a word out of line and never the one to clarify.
Some stories have unexpected endings, taking you by surprise. While stories like Ants, Colours and Passing Through, the author adapts different forms of narratives, establishing at once establishing the very trait and essence of these characters.

With Ants, she writes through the perspective of a young niece who has come visiting her aging aunts who tend to the huge house, running it smoothly, devoting their entire lives to the structure. Long widowed, they continue to live is a microcosm which seems like a tiny spec, hardly relatable or of any importance. Through Colours, the author explains that we still live in a world where superstitions hold a majority. They can decide one’s life’s path!

In Passing Through, while stranded at an alien airport, the protagonist battles her inner demons of insecurities. I think this one came the closest to grand dame Ammini Amma! And the end will surprise everyone. While I do not want to divulge much and ruin the fun, I will only say it ends at Mon Repose – French for my place of rest.

In short, the book is thoroughly enjoyable. Every story adds to the reader's experience, leaving one with an ache to know more about the Melekats. 

ABP
ABP

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Might just buy this book after reading the review.
Interesting!

Agree with Arti... it does offer something unique to the reader , telling interlinked tales from multiple perspectives.
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@ Arti

Thank you buddy! I am glad you liked this one. It is a good book. Offers yummy Mallu flavors :)